Most young adults struggle to find meaning in their lives—60% of them, according to a study by the Harvard Graduate School of Education. Finding purpose is certainly not an easy challenge. Daniel Pink, one of my favorite authors, recommends not agonizing over the often frustrating question “What is my passion?” Instead, Pink proposes 7 QUESTIONS THAT CAN HELP YOU DISCOVER YOUR PURPOSE IN A DEEPER WAY.
- What fascinated you as a child? Childhood interests and quirks can give you valuable clues about your true calling. If you loved space, perhaps astronomy still awakens something deep within you. Reconnecting with these early passions can lead you to meaningful pursuits.
- When do you experience flow? Think about the moments when time disappears because you are completely immersed in an activity. These moments reveal intrinsically rewarding pursuits, which could lead to lasting satisfaction.
- What are others grateful for? Sometimes the world notices our strengths before we do. Asking friends and colleagues for feedback can reveal hidden talents and contributions that bring value to others.
- What is your “life quote”? Inspired by Clare Booth Luce’s advice to President Kennedy, this idea challenges you to define your purpose in a single sentence. Instead of trying to be everything, focus on one or two key things that truly matter.
- Where can you make the greatest contribution? Purpose often lies in serving others. Observe the needs around you and then reverse-analyze to determine how your skills and passions can meet them. As Daniel Pink says, “Asking ‘Why?’ can lead to understanding. Asking ‘Why not?’ can lead to great breakthroughs.”
- What would you do if money were no object? Forget financial worries for a moment: what excites you? While complete financial freedom isn’t always possible, incorporating even small elements of your passion into your daily life can lead to greater satisfaction.
- What would you regret at 90? Research shows that we regret inaction more than action. Make a list of what you might regret not having done and what you’d be proud of to clarify what matters most.
In the end, life is short, and finding purpose is no easy challenge. So I recommend you start with these 7 questions from Daniel Pink; they’re sure to help.
And I’ll end with a quote from Pablo Picasso that explains his vision of purpose:
“The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it to others.”
